Blogs
The Two Forces that Drive You
Every person is driven by two unseen forces: what they’re seeking and what they’re avoiding. These twin drives influence every decision, reaction, and conversation. Let’s explore the behaviors that feed and repel each of the styles: 🦅 Confident and take-charge Eagles...
The Rise of Dove Leaders
In today’s world, leadership is being tested by the rapid pace of change. One might think that our fast-paced world favors Eagles and Parrots, and indeed, they thrive as leaders. But I’ve noticed a significant shift in my 30+ years since discovering the DISC styles in...
Returning to Where Team Building Began
While many know me as The Bird Guy, few realize I started my career by founding one of the first team building companies in the United States. Today, Team Builders Plus continues to lead in helping teams create shared experiences. However, team building has changed...
Keep Calm and Let Your Personality Shine
Crises have a funny way of revealing who people truly are. Your response in a crisis shows more about your personality than the situation itself. Some remain composed by protecting others. The caring Dove keeps their voice steady and faces relaxed. They listen...
What Happens When a Personality Style Leaves the Team
When someone leaves the team, you can feel it. The energy shifts, and skills that you took for granted are lost. As the song says, “You don’t know what you’ve got till it’s gone.” 🦅 When an Eagle leaves, momentum slows down. Decisions take longer. The drive that once...
Red Zone Study
Some believe many fail due to a lack of skill, intelligence, or experience. However, people often fail because qualities that helped them get promoted become overused and backfire. That insight is key to a landmark study by Robert and Joyce Hogan, published in the...
Dieting and the Four Styles
If you're connected with me, you know that our personality influences everything we do. It shows up in our thought patterns and the choices we make. Today, we'll look at how our style affects the way we eat and how we try to control ourselves to lose weight or stay...
Styles and the “Verts”
Introvert. Extrovert. We throw these words around as if they’re obvious. But they’re not. Introverts Introverts tend to recharge inwardly. In the Bird Styles, this is seen as the logical, analytical Owls 🦉 and the supportive, empathetic Doves 🕊. Owls turn inward to...
The Love Languages Meet the Bird Styles: How Personality Shapes the Way We Love
We all want to feel loved, but we don’t all speak the same language. More than 30 years ago, Dr. Gary Chapman introduced the world to the Five Love Languages: Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Quality Time, Gifts, and Physical Touch. His simple yet powerful...
How Personality Shows Up in the NFL
As we approach the Super Bowl, football is the perfect lens to study the power of personality. Four NFL teams are named after birds: the Philadelphia Eagles, Baltimore Ravens, Seattle Seahawks, and Arizona Cardinals. But this article explores four very different...